Avoiding the Trap of Perfectionism

You see, there’s a side of perfectionism that many people don’t talk about.
It doesn’t look like laziness.
It doesn’t look like giving up.
In fact, it disguises itself as discipline, excellence, and high standards.
But underneath, it often hides fear.
And sadly, mediocrity.

Because perfectionism will make you wait until it’s “just right” before you put your work out.
And in the process, it keeps you from ever being seen.

I’ve Been There

It took me almost four years as a graphic designer before people even those close to me realized I was even in the field.

They knew me as an architect.
As a writer.
A poet.
And a lover. (Yes, that too.)

But not as a designer.
And do you know why?
Because I wanted to be so good that no one would ever doubt my skill. I wanted to master everything before I ever shared anything.
What I didn’t realize back then is something many creatives still struggle with today:
It’s one thing to be good. It’s another thing to be known.
If no one sees what you do, how will they trust you with the opportunities you’re waiting for?

Start Where You Are. Show What You’re Becoming.

Today, I teach designers and other business owners to showcase their work from the early stages.

Not because it’s perfect.

Not because they’ve arrived.
But because they are growing and that growth is valuable.

Be known for what you do.

Let people see your progress.
That’s how you escape the trap of perfectionism.

You Grow by Sharing, Not Hiding

In his book Show Your Work, Austin Kleon shares this beautiful truth:
"Share daily. Teach what you know. Focus on process, not just product. Embrace a curious mindset."

This is how you grow. This is how you build confidence. This is how you build community.
He also encourages creatives to embrace their “amateur spirit” that willingness to be open, to learn publicly, and to share without shame.

And yes, people may criticize you.
Some may mock you.
But others will learn from you.
Others will support you.
And most importantly you’ll grow.

This Is Real Life. Not a Perfect Stage.

If you wait until it’s perfect, you’ll wait forever.
Start now.
Show your work.
Ask for feedback.
Make the adjustments.
And keep moving.

Because the only way to prepare for the real world… is to start living in it.

Have you ever delayed sharing your work because you felt it wasn’t good enough?
What did perfectionism cost you?

Let’s talk in the comments. You’re not alone and your story might free someone else.